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• さざんか
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• 2022/12/06 08:17

The Ogoori Winter Festival will be held on December 11 from noon to 8 p.m. on the street in front of Nishitetsu Ogoori Station.

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• 雷
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• 2022/05/12 09:03

On May 14 and 15, the Poppy Festival will be held at Ajisaka Poppy Garden.
May is the best time to see them.

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• 我
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• 2022/11/16 13:08

Gone again ？

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#4439

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• 2026/10/04 (Sun) 15:33
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嫌がらせテキストで、皆に私の事を言うとか何とか書いてきてた。

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#4452

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• Today 11:23
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さんざん罵ってくるから、あーもう友達関係終わりなんだなあって思ってると、翌日にはカラオケや遊園地やHalloween nightに行く話とかしてくる。(一度も行かなかったけれど。)
毎日毎日態度が変わってターゲットを混乱させるのが彼らの常套手段らしい。
ダークトライアドの割合は、パーソナリティ障害のレベルが1〜2％、そういった傾向をもつ人たちは10〜20％だそう。
因みに、過去に心の傷を負って対人関係が不安定になってしまっている人も少なくないが、人を陥れたり故意に傷つける意思を持たない人たちはダークトライアドではない。

私の親友は、そういう悪意を持つ人たちが多くいるような場所を避けるようにしている。高級住宅街に住み、高い会費のスポーツクラブに行き、教養、良識のある人たち、リッチな人たちしかいない場所に常にいるようにしている。
私は何処にでも行くし、無防備、無警戒過ぎて、そういう企みのある人たちが絶えず寄って来てしまう。

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#4455

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• Today 11:47
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ダークトライアドの人によくターゲットにされてしまう。
ブス事変の前から、チクチク色々言われていた。そんなのも知らないのー？信じらんなーい！　
私がスタバでお湯を頼もうとしただけで、非常識だとかさんざん言ってくる。
普通の人は不快に思ったら離れるけれど、私は我慢してしまうからいつもターゲットにされてしまうんだ。
忍耐とか従順っていう言葉っておかしいんじゃないかな、悪意を持った人物に、ただ都合よく利用される状況に陥ってしまう事が少なくない。
私がまだ彼女からのテキストを受けていた時、「あなたとの出会いはLittle Tokyo。にこにこして...」とか、「あなたという友達を失って...」「私はあの時入院してたのに」とか書いてきて罪悪感を抱かされて、私は彼女が可哀想になって何とか修復しようと思ってしまった。
こういうのって自己愛性の人の典型的なやり方なんだそう。

童顔で警戒心がない、独り身で家族がいない、過度激動があって感情の振れ幅が大きく、動揺しやすい、困っている人を助けようとしてしまう、こういうのがダークトライアドの人たちにとっては格好の獲物、格好の餌食に見える。
彼女はこれから日本語や音楽の生徒たちを増やす計画を立てていた。私を使ってお金稼ぎするつもりだったんだ。
最初は、教えるのすっごい上手！才能あるよ！と大絶賛してきていた。私も教えるのが楽しくて、日本語教師資格取ろうかなー❤️とかって話してた。←能天気バカ
それが最近では、教える能力がない、とか罵り、嫌がらせばかり。
ダークトライアドのやり方、感じ良く近付いてきて、過剰に褒めてきたりべったり親しくなってから、突き落とす。私がおかしいんだって私にも周りにも思わせて、周りみんな味方につけてターゲットを孤立させる。

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#4456

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• Today 11:54
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今日もまだテキストが続いている。
私テキスト全く読んでない、開いてもない、とか、もう何も送って来ないで、って何度も言ったにも関わらず、まだしつこく送って来る理由がわからなくて、頭の中は😣？？？だった。
この人、友達でも何でもなくて、ダークトライアドの人間だったんだって事がわかってからは
送り続けられる嫌がらせメールの目的がはっきりした。
相変わらず今週のレッスンの予定だろうけど、

カウントダウン5️⃣リマインダー
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TPOをわきまえた話題ができない人は...
とか送ってきている。前は本当に訳わからなかったけど、私をコントロールしようとしているんだってわかってからは、気持ち悪さと不気味さしか感じない。
レッスンなんてもう何週間も行っていないのに、まだ私が来ると思ってるんだ。

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#4458

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• Today 12:11
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彼女は全くダークトライアドの人間には見えない。
可愛らしい声で、ハーイ！と顔見知りに手を振りながら歩き、とてもフレンドリー。
私の周りは彼女に好印象を持っている人ばかりだ。
だけどブスの件で激昂してからは私を罵り、非難し続け、私の横に来て嫌味を言い捨てて立ち去る。
私が咄嗟に彼女を追いかけて、いい加減にしてよ！もう私に近付かないで！と声を荒げるので、周りの人たちは、私が彼女を虐めていると思っている。

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#1

• SS
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• Today 09:21

SSリタイアメントベネフィットを受け取られてる方、受け取りを申し込まれたのは何歳でしたか。
もし良かったら理由と、感想を聞かせて下さい。
人其々なのは充分承知ですが、結果として良かったなどの感想に興味があります。
私はまだ受け取っていません。

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#1

• North Hills
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• Yesterday 12:35

来年　2027　ukulele international 無事 開催 されるんでしょうか？

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#2

• DOWNTOWN
• Yesterday 14:47
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Ukulele Festival Hawaiiのことかな？

7月11日2027年に開催されると、発表されてますが。

#3

• North Hills
• Yesterday 21:54
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ロックバンド「サザンオールスターズ」のベーシスト関口和之(70)が代表取締役を務める音楽関連会社「のほほん」が、東京国税局から約5億8千万円の申告漏れを指摘されたことについて4日、同社の公式サイトで謝罪した。また、バンドの所属事務所「アミューズ」も声明を発表した。

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• North Hills
• Yesterday 21:56
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ボランティアで お手伝いする人 大変ですね

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• おはな
• 2026/10/02 17:50

今年新患でファミリードクターの予約を取られた方がいましたら教えてください。

新患の場合、ファミリードクターの予約を取るのに日にちがかかると聞きました。
ホノルル市内でどれくらい先に予約が取れましたか？
もちろん、ドクターによって違うと思いますが、経験者の方いらっしゃいましたら教えてください。

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#2

• なな
• 2026/10/04 (Sun) 14:40
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HMSAやカイザーに直接電話したほうが早いですよ。

新患を受付してくれるドクターを紹介してくれるので、数名、電話してみましょう。

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• Noa
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• 2026/10/02 02:58

とあるハワイの会社(日系メディア系)で社員の個人のSNSの利用でアカウントをやめなければ即日解雇と社長の独断でなったそうです。
そのようなことはできる、される、のでしょうか。。。

前提として業務時間中にやっていたわけでもなく、何か不利益になることをしたわけでもないようです。
「24時間会社に忠実にいるべき（気に食わないから）」が理由のようです。。。

そんな昭和な発想の人がいるんですねという感想ですが、、、
もしそういう事例(ヤバイ会社)があったら教えて欲しいなと思い投稿です。
SNSなんて皆やっている時代ですのでね。。。

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• 会社
• 2026/10/03 (Sat) 10:45
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その会社は違法行為ですね。

SNSをしてるからと言って、解雇をする事は違法行為ですね。

強行しようとするなら、弁護士さんにご相談された方が良いですね。

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• D
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• 2026/10/03 02:51

どんな人が貧乏臭いと感じますか？
皆さんの意見をお聞かせください。

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#2

• 友人の携帯から
• 2026/10/03 (Sat) 08:17
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人を叩いたり嘲笑うのがお好きな方がスレ立てしたんでしょうね。

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• ハラ
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• 2026/09/25 16:06

I’m currently working at my first non-Nikkei company, in an environment with many Japanese and Asian employees. My boss isn’t used to managing people, so he gets flustered and takes his frustration out on those around him by yelling at them. He even yells at new hires who just started and don’t know anything yet, telling them “that’s not right” without any explanation.
I think this kind of situation would be considered power harassment in Japan, but is the term “power harassment” also used in English-speaking countries, and does it refer to situations like this? ？

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• 会社
• 2026/09/26 (Sat) 08:27
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This is a common issue at Japanese companies.

You should report this to the Labor Department.
In the U.S., if a company did something like that,
the company itself would be sued.

Please report this to the Labor Department.

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• ハラ
• 2026/09/27 (Sun) 03:57
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I'll look into how to report this to the Labor Bureau. Alternatively,
since the company is in the food and beverage industry and originally from Europe, I think I could report it directly to the company itself, so I'd like to consider that option, but I'm worried about whether my anonymity will be properly protected.

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• ハラ
• 2026/09/27 (Sun) 15:14
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Thank you, EEOC, for providing such specific details.
As I suspected, “power harassment” is a term coined in Japan and isn’t used in the U.S.
It’s certainly impossible to file a complaint without evidence. Moreover, since you can’t record conversations without the other person’s permission, it’s practically impossible unless the experience of workplace harassment is severe enough to cause mental distress and result in a doctor’s medical certificate.
I don’t plan on staying at this company much longer myself, but I feel sorry for the new hires and the other employees.

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• クリフバー
• 2026/09/30 (Wed) 18:53
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Mr. Hara

No, you can sue.

In both Japan and the United States, you can sue if conduct in the workplace constitutes another tort, such as assault, physical restraint, defamation, or acts that cause extreme mental distress.
Incidentally, “power harassment” is not an official legal term in Japan either



Regarding recordings, in Hawaii, if you are a party to the conversation, you can legally record it even without the other person’s permission.
The issue arises when you eavesdrop on a conversation in which you are not present.

Therefore, the explanation that recording without the person’s permission is illegal and that the case ends as soon as it is filed with the EEOC is also incorrect.

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• 2025/02/03 04:36

We moved to Hawaii from the Bay Area last May and have two children, our oldest is now 3.5 years old and our youngest is 1.5 years old.
I was interested in Montessori education before my children were born, and while researching, I heard that
Montessori Community School in the Makiki area is a wonderful school. I saw that over 95% of the students go to Iolani or Punahou each year
through the Feeding School to Iolani or Punahou schools.
I know that it is very difficult to get into Montessori Community School as there are several topics on this site.
I would like to enroll my oldest son from Kinder and my youngest son from Pre, what should I do to prepare for the entrance exam?
We would like to know what kind of education and preparation you have done for your son who is currently attending the school.
We have contacted the school and are afraid that the admission rate is quite high.

My two sons will be living in Hawaii for at least 10 years, so I am hoping that they will be able to attend Iolani School or Punahou School in the future
We are hoping to attend Montessori Community School. I heard that another school, Hana Hau'oli, is also a feeding school, but
I heard that you have to have some kind of connection such as family connection or working to get in, but I have given up because I have no connections in Hawaii.
I would appreciate any information you can give me if you have taken the test for Puri or Kinder.

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• MCS ALUMNIのママ
• 2026/01/30 (Fri) 07:04
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My son graduated from MCS and went from Middle to Punahou and graduated last year. He is now attending a state college in the Mainland.
Oh no, you can't compare Punahou to MCS. To be clear, MCS graduates have a very hard time getting to the top in Punahou.
The "pure gold Punahou kids" （ from Kinder ） are almost always at the top. At Punahou, we call the kids from Kinder "Punahou Kids".
80% of the students who went on to the Ivy League and the most prestigious colleges were also from Kinder.
MCS is a Montessori school, so academics are appropriate, and from about the 4th grade onward, children aiming for Punahou Middle must attend cram school or Tutor.
Don't expect to get into Punahou or Iolani just by taking MCS classes, the SSAT is very revealing.
Punahou, you need to be at least 90% on the SSAT after all these years of academic improvement.
When my son took the Middle, he got 80%. Anyway, Punahou and Iolani are not just the top two.
Once you get in, it's a matter of whether you can keep up with the Punahou kids or not. Anyway, there was a huge difference between the two schools, so as other parents have said, it is true that I had a hard time studying after I entered Punahou.

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• 2026/02/22 (Sun) 04:10
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I had my son attend Monte until 6th grade and took the Punahou, Iolani, Mippa, and Merinol entrance exams, and he was rejected by Punahou and Iolani and is now attending Mippa.
To be honest, I had heard that 90% of the students could go to Punahou or Iolani if they attended Monte, and the school claimed that Monte's education was advanced and comparable to Punahou and Iolani without a tutor. However, when I took the public test （ the national test and the SSAT ） I found that the Monte students were not at that level, but at best Mippa and Merinol.
I was so surprised and impatient that I rushed to the individual tutor and Takahashi Juku. By the time I realized it, there were 8 months until the exam. I could never catch up with Punahou and Iolani level.
In the school year my child attended, 13 students took the exam and 3 were accepted to Punahou or Iolani, and 10, including my child, were not.
As others have said, many of the families who attend Monte are Monte believers （ really believing faith ）. It was my fault for being so relaxed and believing what they said and what the school claimed, but by the time I realized it, it was already too late.
The same people who come to speak at the Elementary panel every year as parents of alumni, the same people. For a long time now. Monte is a laid back, small school. The community is small because of the small number of families and the small number of students, and the information is skewed so that it is too late, as it is for me.
If you are considering Elementary at Monte, you will need tutors, etc. from 4th grade at the latest if you want to go to Punahou or Iolani from the middle.

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• 2026/05/16 (Sat) 06:17
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It's been a while since I've used Vivinavi's private sales and came across this page. My son was also MCS, he was there through 6th grade and took the middle exam but was rejected from Punahou, he did not take the exam to Iola and is attending another school. My child's best friend （, who was in Kinder through 6th grade ）, was accepted to Punahou, but she feels a huge gap in academic ability and is losing confidence. She feels that the kids from Kinder are incredibly smart at Punahou, and that what they are learning at Elementary is far beyond what they are learning at MCS. My child's best friend was at the top of his class at MCS, but after a few years at Punahou, he is still below average. I sent my child to MCS because I thought it was a good idea to give priority to what he liked and to nurture him, but this backfired when it came to aiming for the top schools. The number of students who have been accepted to Punahou and Iolani from MCS in the past few years has been less than 30%, and I think this is a testament to that. What I can say is that the academic level of Punahou and Iolani today is different from that of Punahou and Iolani more than 5 years ago, or maybe the academic level of MCS has dropped. It could be both. Since Punahou has gone up 5% SSAT in the last 3 years. We are planning to try again narrowly （ high school entry ） which only takes a few students because my kids are not satisfied with their current school. By the way, when I took the exam in 6th grade, the whole class had tutors and went to cram school. The school said that it was unnecessary ！, but if I didn't have a tutor, I wouldn't have been able to pass any of the entrance examinations.

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• 2026/05/16 (Sat) 08:49
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We have been fortunate enough to be able to attend MCS pre in August and are now considering whether to send our child to MCS. This year, it seems that all applicants were able to apply for pre, because we contacted them in early March, just before the acceptance announcement, rather than after the application deadline, and they told us that they would send out First Round notices but that there were still spots available and that they would accept our application if we submitted one. ！ We are also wondering whether Central Union, St. Clements, or MCS would be better for us to attend Punahou from Kinder. We have paid the deposit for all three schools, so we are keeping all three. The reason why I applied to MCS in March is because I thought that even if I fail the Kinder exam because of Elementary.................... I thought that even if I failed the Kinder test, I would still be able to go to Punahou, but it looks like my chances of going to Punahou are slim. Thank you all for the useful information to consider.

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• takako
• 2026/09/30 (Wed) 05:02
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My daughter attends MCS’s Upper Elementary.
This year, MCS has fewer students than its capacity in both preschool and elementary school. You can still enroll even now. ！
The elementary school is constantly short on students and accepts applications year-round. Currently, there are only a handful of third graders, and while the school aims for 20 students per grade each year,
I’ve never seen a grade with 20 students.
Generally, the largest grade has only 12 or 13 students. The others have only around 10 students, and those are split into two classes—grades 1–3 in one class and grades 4–6 in another—
so the elementary school has a total of four classes for grades 1–6. There are only two teachers for three different grade levels. In any case, it is a fact that quality is declining due to a shortage of students, teachers, and facilities. Recently, only about two students have been accepted into Punahou’s middle school each year.
As others have noted, the acceptance rate to Punahou was 90% more than five years ago, but since about five years ago, Punahou’s academic standards have risen significantly compared to the past, so （ while the bar was already high, it now requires very high SSAT scores— and you won’t get in without a high percentile score. ） As long as MCS maintains its current educational program, it won’t be able to catch up to Punahou’s level. The school itself states that MCS is not a feeder school for Punahou. These days, many students from the middle school division end up going to mid-tier schools or charter schools.
If you’re considering enrolling your child at MCS with the goal of getting into Punahou after middle school, I think you should reconsider and look into a different school starting in kindergarten. Even at Hanahauoli, the acceptance rate to Punahou is only 60–70% these days. Our child entered preschool at MCS over five years ago, so we enrolled based on a 90% acceptance rate, and since this is the situation now while they’re still attending, we have no choice but to stay.

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